
Finding a job these days can feel like searching for a needle in a haystack, especially when everyone around you seems to be saying, “Just network!” But what does that even mean, and how do you actually do it effectively? If you’re feeling a bit lost in the job search jungle, you’re not alone. The good news is, you don’t need to know everyone; you just need to know the right people and use the right strategies. Let’s dive in.
Reverse Engineer Your Dream Job (No, Seriously!)
Before you start frantically applying to every job posting under the sun, take a moment to be strategic. Think about that ideal job—the one that truly excites you. Now, head over to LinkedIn and do some detective work.
Your mission: Find people who already have your dream job.
Instead of casting a wide net and hoping for the best, focus your efforts. Look at their LinkedIn profiles closely:
- Their Headline and About Section: What keywords, phrases, and attributes do they use to describe themselves and their work? Do you see common themes across multiple profiles?
- Their Experience and Job Descriptions: What responsibilities do they list? What skills are highlighted?
- Their Education, Skills, and Licenses & Certifications Sections: What educational backgrounds do they share? What skills have they endorsed or listed? Do they have specific certifications? Are these certifications typically required for the positions you’re looking for? If you’re unsure, make a note to ask about their importance, the process to obtain them, cost, and timeline when you network. Ask if they think it’s worth the investment.
As you do this, start building your own vocabulary. While you should never lie or misrepresent yourself, you can absolutely tailor your own LinkedIn profile and resume to speak the language of your desired role. If you have experience with similar attributes or responsibilities, make sure to highlight them using the words and phrases you’ve identified. This isn’t about being someone you’re not; it’s about effectively communicating how your existing skills and experiences align with what companies are looking for.
Think Like a Recruiter: What Are They Really Looking For?
You might be thinking, “But how do I know what recruiters actually care about?” It’s a fair question. While every company and role is different, there are definitely common threads. Some roles demand highly specialized knowledge (think niche engineering or specific legal fields), while others prioritize broad expertise within a general field (like a marketing generalist or an HR business partner).
From my own experience in recruiting, whether it was for students, new grads, or seasoned professionals, certain qualities consistently stood out:
- For early-career roles: We often looked for signs of intellectual curiosity, adaptability, and drive. Did their experiences (academic, extracurricular, volunteer) demonstrate a genuine desire to learn and grow? Could they pivot and problem-solve?
- For more experienced roles: We’d delve into career progression. How often did this person move up or get promoted? How did their trajectory compare to their peers or others at their company? We also considered job tenure—while not the only factor, frequent job hopping could sometimes raise questions about long-term commitment. Ultimately, we wanted to see ambition and a track record of being a high performer.
- For senior or C-suite level roles: Recruiters often look beyond direct experience. They seek individuals who are thought leaders in their field, capable of shaping strategy, influencing industry trends, and driving large-scale change. Qualities like visionary leadership, the ability to mentor and build high-performing teams, and a proven track record of impactful business results become paramount. They’re looking for someone who doesn’t just execute, but innovates and inspires.
A quick note on recruiter insights: It’s true, this isn’t an exact science, and there are always fantastic workers who don’t fit neatly into these boxes. The observations shared here about what recruiters look for are based on my personal experience, and it’s important to remember that hiring priorities can vary significantly based on company culture, industry norms, specific roles, and even the current economic climate. But by understanding common tendencies, you can strategically present yourself to increase your chances of getting noticed. Make sure your profile and resume subtly (and honestly) highlight these attributes.
Networking: It’s Not Who You Know, It’s How You Connect
“Network, network, network!” Everyone says it, but few explain how. Many people dismiss networking because they don’t “know anyone” in their dream company or industry. Here’s the secret: that doesn’t matter as much as you think.
You can absolutely network with people you don’t know directly, especially on platforms like LinkedIn. The key is to be strategic and genuine.
Here are a few pathways to consider when reaching out:
- Direct Connections: Start with people who have something directly in common with you.
- Did you go to the same school?
- Work for the same past company?
- Have you met them at an event or through a mutual connection?
- Example: “Hi [Name], I saw we both attended [University Name] and noticed your work at [Company]. I’m really interested in [their field/role] and would love to hear about your experience there. Would you be open to a quick virtual coffee chat sometime next week?”
- Similar Paths/Interests: Broaden your search to individuals with similar experiences or interests.
- Are they in the same general field as you, even if not the exact role?
- Have they made a similar career transition (e.g., from accounting to tech)?
- Do you share a common interest (e.g., a professional group, a volunteer cause)?
- Example: “Hi [Name], I noticed you also transitioned from [Previous Industry] to [Current Industry]. I’m considering a similar move and would be grateful for any insights you could share about your journey. Would you be open to a quick Zoom chat sometime?”
A Few Crucial Networking Pointers:
- Don’t Be Discouraged by Silence: Not everyone is super active on LinkedIn, and people are busy. Don’t take it personally if you don’t get a response. It’s okay to send a polite follow-up after about a week if you haven’t heard back.
- Focus on Learning, Not Leaching: Your intention matters, and it will come through in your messages and conversations. Approach these interactions with a genuine desire to learn from their experience, rather than immediately asking for a referral or a job.
- Instead of: “Can you get me a job at your company?”
- Try: “I’m really trying to understand the day-to-day of a [their role] at [their company]. Would you be open to share your perspective?”
- Ask Thoughtful Questions: When you do connect, be prepared with genuine questions that show your interest.
- “What was your application process like for your current role?”
- “What do you enjoy most about your role and the company culture?”
- “What do you think is most important for someone to succeed in this role?”
- “How did you learn about or transition into this field/role?”
- “Is there anything you can think of that might help someone like me stand out or increase my chances?”
- Build a Relationship: If someone gives you valuable advice or tips, follow through on them! And here’s the kicker: keep them updated on your progress. Let them know how their advice helped you. This shows respect, initiative, and builds a genuine connection.
- Leverage Your Network in Interviews: If you do secure an interview, don’t hesitate to mention your networking efforts. For example, if asked why you’re applying, you could say something like, “I had the opportunity to speak with [Name 1] and [Name 2] from your team, and the way they described the company culture and [specific positive aspect] truly highlighted the company’s value of [matching company value], which made me genuinely want to become a part of this team.” This shows initiative, genuine interest, and that you’ve done your homework.
- It’s Like Dating: This might sound cheesy, but the job search is a lot like dating. You don’t need every person or every company to want you. You just need the right one. If a connection doesn’t pan out or a company isn’t a fit, it’s totally fine. Move on to the next opportunity. Your perfect match is out there!
Networking isn’t about collecting a long list of contacts; it’s about building meaningful connections that can open doors and provide invaluable insights. Go forth, connect authentically, and remember: your dream job is within reach!
Need More Support on Your Job Search Journey?
Navigating the job market can be challenging, but you don’t have to do it alone. If you’re looking for more personalized guidance, have specific questions about your unique situation, or simply want to explore how to apply these strategies effectively, I’m here to help.
Feel free to schedule a call with me here to discuss your career goals and how to achieve them. Let’s work together to make your job search a success!
